Are you maintaining a healthfully physically fit - toned embodiment, are honest & appreciative, and want to enjoy receiving attentively focused, shame-free, openly inclusively sensually nurturing massages? Massage sessions last anywhere from 30 minutes to a few hours, depending on time available, physical fitness, trustworthy respectfully honest reliable follow through with honestly communicating making & showing for massage times, appreciation & mutual synergy.
Additional to solitary self care choices such as regular exercise, maintaining a healthfully physically fit - trim - toned body, eating a healthy diet, getting plenty of fresh air and having an honest, appreciative mind & way of relating, enjoying nurturing affection such as with sensually nurturing massages is wellness supportive & complimentary to living a healthy balanced, fulfilling & pleasurable life.
Unfortunately mainstream society & media often promote unnatural fearful, shaming & oppressive attitudes about the natural, healthy nude body, and affection outside of the most dogmatic parameters. When in fact it is equally healthy & natural for people to desire & enjoy affection in many diverse contexts.
Allowing oneself to appreciatively relax and open to receiving & enjoying slow, attentively loving, nurturing affection such as massages, releases unnatural shame, armoring and stress. Transforming socially normalized fearing, shaming and blocking of natural loving sensual energy flow. This supports living with a more natural, loving, appreciative & comfortable embodiment in the present moment. Enjoying the innate sensuality, freedom & healthy pleasure of being human with an appreciatively open mind, body & heart.
One aspect of sensually inclusive massages is what is sometimes referred to as edging. This is the experience of allowing relaxation into sensual nurturing. Instead of rushing to an end point so to speak such as orgasm, continuing to nurture and enjoy the pulsing waves of calm pleasure & arousal for extended amounts of time. Expanding & deepening nourishing, endorphin-enhancing feelings throughout ones' being. This can be beautifully nourishing, heart opening and harmonizing. Relaxing beautifully into the soft loving home of ones fleshing soul.
These sessions are akin to some European sentiments. Providing less prudish, more comfortable & appreciative perspectives & ways of relating with the natural body & massages. In the sense of including ( as appreciated ) breasts & abdomen, relating with the body as a whole, and a slow, nurturing quality of massage. As I was also taught by multiple women instructors at some of the professional massage schools I have attended.
Creating this separate, somewhat more natural massage option for mutually resonant, healthy women who appreciate & prefer this kind of massage, apart from my other regular & a bit more conservative massage sessions, helps with clarity for both clients and myself. Since I've learned that some women prefer a less shaming, more appreciatively inclusively nurturing option but don't want to ask for this for fear of being negatively judged. And I am also discerning in who I am open to giving for in this way, and generally to varying degrees.
Throughout my years as a certified massage therapist and meditative embodiment practitioner, many women receiving massage sessions from me express enjoying the nurturing, sensitive and pleasurable quality they experience from massages I provide. And many women indirectly or directly ask & suggest I also provide sessions focused primarily on the calm, slow inclusively nurturing quality apart from just the deep tissue, myofascial, sports massage emphasis. Which is why I eventually decided to create this more sensually inclusive massage option distinct from my regular massage sessions. To provide more of this natural sensual affection within the context of massages, selectively for appreciative, healthy, resonant women.
* This does not mean I am open to giving in this naturally nurturing way for any woman or even a lot of women. It is important to me to only give this discerningly, for women who I share genuine mutual appreciation, respect, and open honesty with. Integral, physically and mentally healthy, loving women who value nurturing a genuine, honestly communicative, appreciative quality of relating with me even if our relating is kept within the context of on-going massage sessions.
Donation based massage & first session.
Each massage session is donation based between $50-$100 which is just for the first 30 minutes of general massage during which we can determine mutual comfort. If you are enjoying your massage, feel open to more, we both feel resonant and you want to continue longer for a more inclusive, sensual massage then there is no fee for time beyond the first 30 minutes. So money is not an obstacle to enjoying sensually nurturing massage sessions.
If and as mutually comfortable and time allows, massages may last anywhere from 30 minutes to a few hours, based in personal mutual comfort & openness independent of any monetary exchange. And is open-ended regarding time & type of massage & touch based in mutual appreciation, openness & availability.
For our first meeting, before any massage, we will talk with each other and develop a sense if & how we both feel open to a session. During this time we can discuss boundaries, any questions & preferences you may have for your session. This helps co-create a mutually clarifying, comfortable and harmonious synergy with each other.
Provided we both are open to continuing past the initial meeting & conversations, you are then welcome to relax into receiving attentive, slow sensually nurturing massage for as long as we both have time for & is desired.
Desire to receive massage sessions at my Marin, California location? Or your location?
If you are compatible with & respect the criteria & boundaries I have mentioned below, you are welcome to be in touch to reserve times & enjoy receiving massage sessions -
Compatible Criteria Include - * Of your own choice, you appreciate and want to enjoy receiving shame-free, openly sensually affectionate massage of your whole body.
* Truly compatible with & respect all the criteria & boundaries I referred to & have. Oddly, many women contact me requesting sessions, but they abusively ignore & disrespect my clearly listed boundaries & criteria ( criteria such as only women who communicate with total honesty, are truly physically fit - not fat or out of shape - as basic self-responsibility for ones health, are appreciative & reliable with honestly communicating & showing up on time for mutually agreed upon appointments and don't act entitled to my time, affection, etc.. ) for who I am willing to even consider meeting & giving for. Some even abusively act offended at my respecting my healthy boundaries and my zero tolerance for women lying and otherwise disrespecting my boundaries & compatibility criteria.
Again, I have zero tolerance for and am never open to women who relate in such abusively dishonest, entitled, disrespectful ways.
* You agree to communicate reliably openly directly honestly with me at all times. Including about any preferences, questions & boundaries you have before expecting me to know & thereby respect such. And to be honest about your own behaviors, and in making & showing for agreed upon session times. You agree to respect any boundaries I have & express. Including those mentioned in this section.
* You are healthfully physically fit - toned. Massage sessions are not a replacement for, but are a compliment to being self-responsibly physically fit & healthy.
* Include in your first email to me - your full name, at least two clear & recent full photos of just yourself taken within the last month ( not hidden behind deceptive angles, bulky clothing, filters, mask, glasses, etc., ) to help filter out spammers & scammers and for mutual clarity.
* Mention what interests you in receiving session(s), days & times & location you want to receive sessions and any questions you have.
* When giving for mutually compatible, healthy women who respect my equal humanity & time, who are considerately reliable about communicating honestly, making & showing up for agreements & scheduled sessions on a regular basis, I can be very generous in how I give and for how long. Mutual respect, appreciation & honesty is foundational.
Some healthy motivations for wanting & receiving sensually nurturing massages -
Many women have shared with me some of the following motivations for wanting & receiving sensually nurturing massages -
* Being separated or divorced recently or for a long time, and missing feeling nurturing affectionate touch.
* Enjoying the blending of skillful massage and sensually nurturing, slow qualities of touch & synergy.
* Wanting to enjoy receiving attentively loving, nurturing inclusive massage of breasts for extended periods of time, which are unfortunately usually neglected in formal spa massages. Many women share they love having their breasts massaged, even preferring this for hours at time. Massage of breasts also helps open & nourish the heart center, facilitates healthy lymph flow and feels wonderfully nourishing.
* Preferring a more European, natural, shame-free perspective & ways of relating with the natural body & massages. Free of the shame, fear, hate & prudish compartmentalizing attitudes about the natural body & affection normalized & pushed by puritanical sociopaths who abusively believe & act as if they have any right to negatively judge, invade & control what anyone else does in their personal lives & relationships of all kinds.
* Open to experiencing new, nourishing ways of being & enjoying ones soulfully embodying nature.
* Relaxing into appreciatively openly receiving attentive, calmly affectionate touch for more than a few minutes at a time. Massage sessions last anywhere from 1 hour to a few hours or so depending on time available, physical fitness & honest appreciation of clientele & mutual synergy.
* Not having time or interest in a formal, full-time intimate relationship, but respect the value of relaxing, intimately affectionate massage - touch and the balancing aspects of this.
* Enjoying the naturally complimentary, yin - yang / female - male harmonizing relational synergy as a women receiving from a man.
* Appreciating receiving whole body nurturing affection for extended periods of time. Rather than rushing to genital intercourse & neglecting a slower, whole body nurturing focus as happens with some peoples' intimate relationships.
* And additional healthy reasons.
In respect of this I am now selectively providing sensually focused massages at my discretion. For mutually resonant, appreciative, honest, healthfully physically fit - toned women wanting to receive attentively slow, whole body nurturing massages.
While there is a fee of $50 - $100 to support a balanced synergy in respect of my time and giving of the initial 30 minutes of regular massage, when there is mutual comfort, openness & desire to continue beyond the initial 30 minutes there is no fee required for additional massage & nurturing affection beyond the first 30 minutes of each session.
While still including the skill & wellness supportive qualities based in my training & experience in deep tissue, swedish, sports, thai, pnf, lymph, reiki, pranic healing and trigger point massage methods, these whole body sessions emphasize deep relaxation, mindful deep breathing, and attentively slow, whole body sensually nurturing.
A nurturing aspect of slow, attentively nurturing touch & massage and "edging", is the calmly arousing & nourishing quality this has on one's being.
Rather than quickly rushing to some end goal, opening into an hour or more of slow sensually loving affection allows space for deepening, naturally pleasurable relaxing into ones soft, sensually spiritual 💗 heart-centered being.
Allowing waves of pleasure, of appreciatively embodying presence to ebb & flow. Attuning more intimately with the natural pulse of loving existence. ☯️💜