In your first email to me include - at least 2 full, clear photos of yourself taken within this week
( face & body clearly shown & not hidden behind things or deceptive angles or filters or cropped out of photos as many have done to dishonestly represent themselves in violation of one of my boundaries requiring honesty ),
your interests in receiving sessions, what dates & times you are interested in coming,
& reliably make & show up for session times.
I only reply to potentially resonant people who include this basic information in your first message to me.
Are you maintaining a healthfully physically slender fit - toned embodiment, are fully honest & appreciative, and want to enjoy receiving attentively focused, shame-free, sensually nurturing massages?
Massage sessions last anywhere from 30 minutes to a few hours, depending on time available, personal synergy, physical fitness, trustworthy respectfully honesty & reliable follow through with honestly communicating, making & showing for massage times & appreciation.
Additional to solitary self care choices such as regular exercise, maintaining a healthfully physically fit - trim - toned body, eating a healthy diet, getting plenty of fresh air and having an honest, appreciative mind & way of relating, enjoying
nurturing affection such as with sensually nurturing massages is wellness supportive & complimentary to living a healthy balanced, fulfilling & pleasurable life.
Unfortunately mainstream society & media often promote unnatural fearful, shaming & oppressive attitudes about the natural, healthy nude body, and affection outside of the most dogmatic parameters.
When in fact it is equally healthy & natural for people to desire & enjoy affection in many diverse contexts.
Allowing oneself to appreciatively relax and open to receiving & enjoying slow, attentively loving, nurturing affection such as massages, releases unnatural shame, armoring and stress.
Transforming socially normalized fearing, shaming and blocking of natural loving sensual energy flow.
This supports living with a more natural, loving, appreciative & comfortable embodiment in the present moment.
Enjoying the innate sensuality, freedom & healthy pleasure of being human with an appreciatively open mind, body & heart.
I very selectively provide massage sessions akin to some European sentiments. Providing less prudish, more comfortable & appreciative perspectives & ways of relating with the natural body & massages. In the sense of sometimes also including ( as appreciated & mutually comfortable ) breasts & abdomen, which Ive learned many women prefer but are often reluctant to admit or request directly generally.
Relating with the body as a whole, with a slow, nurturing quality.
Creating this separate, more natural massage option for mutually resonant, healthy women who appreciate & prefer this kind of massage, apart from my other regular & a bit more conservative massage sessions, helps with clarity for both clients and myself.
Since I've learned that some women prefer a less shaming, more appreciatively inclusively nurturing option but don't want to ask for this for fear of being negatively judged. And I am also very discerning in who I am open to giving for in this way, and generally to varying degrees.
Throughout my years as a certified massage therapist and meditative embodiment practitioner, many women receiving massage sessions from me express enjoying the nurturing, sensitive and pleasurable quality they experience from massages I provide.
And many women indirectly or directly ask & suggest I also provide sessions focused primarily on the calm, slow inclusively nurturing quality apart from just the deep tissue, myofascial, sports massage emphasis.
Which is why I eventually decided to create this more sensually inclusive massage option distinct from my regular massage sessions. To provide more of this natural sensual affection within the context of massages, selectively for appreciative, healthy, resonant women.
* This does not mean I am open to giving in this naturally nurturing way for any woman or even a lot of women. It is important to me to only give this discerningly, for a couple women at most who are truly mutually appreciatively honestly compatible & reliable who I share genuine mutual appreciation, respect, and open honesty with, and who are not seeing other sensual or sexual massage - tantra - related providers.
There are several reasons for this.
One being health safety.
Another is for quality over quantity, in terms of nurturing truly mutually emotionally openly appreciative, nurturing & honestly loving relating rather than simply selfishly using each other among many additional people for sexual excitement as most people who do "tantric" & sensual massage do.
Compatibility also includes being integral, physically healthfully slender - fit and mentally healthy women who value nurturing an on-going genuine, honestly communicative ( appreciatively proactively & responsively communicating, not ghosting or waiting days to reply to texts or emails ), appreciative quality of relating with me even if our relating is kept within the context of on-going massage sessions. While meeting reliably at least once a month on a consistent basis.
* I do not have full, sexual relations as part of these sessions.
And I only give these sessions at times when / if I am not in a committed relationship myself with someone.
Also I don't provide these for women who are seeking affairs, lie, are in a relationship with a man who is led to believe they are in a monogamous relationship. Honesty and mutually appreciative fidelity is worth respecting.
Massage sessions last anywhere from 30 minutes to a few hours, depending on time available, personal synergy, physical fitness, trustworthy respectfully honesty & reliable follow through with honestly communicating, making & showing for massage times & appreciation.
Additional to solitary self care choices such as regular exercise, maintaining a healthfully physically fit - trim - toned body, eating a healthy diet, getting plenty of fresh air and having an honest, appreciative mind & way of relating, enjoying
nurturing affection such as with sensually nurturing massages is wellness supportive & complimentary to living a healthy balanced, fulfilling & pleasurable life.
Unfortunately mainstream society & media often promote unnatural fearful, shaming & oppressive attitudes about the natural, healthy nude body, and affection outside of the most dogmatic parameters.
When in fact it is equally healthy & natural for people to desire & enjoy affection in many diverse contexts.
Allowing oneself to appreciatively relax and open to receiving & enjoying slow, attentively loving, nurturing affection such as massages, releases unnatural shame, armoring and stress.
Transforming socially normalized fearing, shaming and blocking of natural loving sensual energy flow.
This supports living with a more natural, loving, appreciative & comfortable embodiment in the present moment.
Enjoying the innate sensuality, freedom & healthy pleasure of being human with an appreciatively open mind, body & heart.
I very selectively provide massage sessions akin to some European sentiments. Providing less prudish, more comfortable & appreciative perspectives & ways of relating with the natural body & massages. In the sense of sometimes also including ( as appreciated & mutually comfortable ) breasts & abdomen, which Ive learned many women prefer but are often reluctant to admit or request directly generally.
Relating with the body as a whole, with a slow, nurturing quality.
Creating this separate, more natural massage option for mutually resonant, healthy women who appreciate & prefer this kind of massage, apart from my other regular & a bit more conservative massage sessions, helps with clarity for both clients and myself.
Since I've learned that some women prefer a less shaming, more appreciatively inclusively nurturing option but don't want to ask for this for fear of being negatively judged. And I am also very discerning in who I am open to giving for in this way, and generally to varying degrees.
Throughout my years as a certified massage therapist and meditative embodiment practitioner, many women receiving massage sessions from me express enjoying the nurturing, sensitive and pleasurable quality they experience from massages I provide.
And many women indirectly or directly ask & suggest I also provide sessions focused primarily on the calm, slow inclusively nurturing quality apart from just the deep tissue, myofascial, sports massage emphasis.
Which is why I eventually decided to create this more sensually inclusive massage option distinct from my regular massage sessions. To provide more of this natural sensual affection within the context of massages, selectively for appreciative, healthy, resonant women.
* This does not mean I am open to giving in this naturally nurturing way for any woman or even a lot of women. It is important to me to only give this discerningly, for a couple women at most who are truly mutually appreciatively honestly compatible & reliable who I share genuine mutual appreciation, respect, and open honesty with, and who are not seeing other sensual or sexual massage - tantra - related providers.
There are several reasons for this.
One being health safety.
Another is for quality over quantity, in terms of nurturing truly mutually emotionally openly appreciative, nurturing & honestly loving relating rather than simply selfishly using each other among many additional people for sexual excitement as most people who do "tantric" & sensual massage do.
Compatibility also includes being integral, physically healthfully slender - fit and mentally healthy women who value nurturing an on-going genuine, honestly communicative ( appreciatively proactively & responsively communicating, not ghosting or waiting days to reply to texts or emails ), appreciative quality of relating with me even if our relating is kept within the context of on-going massage sessions. While meeting reliably at least once a month on a consistent basis.
* I do not have full, sexual relations as part of these sessions.
And I only give these sessions at times when / if I am not in a committed relationship myself with someone.
Also I don't provide these for women who are seeking affairs, lie, are in a relationship with a man who is led to believe they are in a monogamous relationship. Honesty and mutually appreciative fidelity is worth respecting.
Massage & first session.
If and as mutually comfortable and time allows, massages may last anywhere from 30 minutes to a few hours, based in personal mutual comfort & openness. And is open-ended regarding time & type of massage & touch based in mutual appreciation, openness & availability.
For our first meeting, before any massage, we will talk with each other and develop a sense if & how we both feel open to a session. During this time we can discuss boundaries, any questions & preferences you may have for your session.
This helps co-create a mutually clarifying, comfortable and harmonious synergy with each other.
Provided we both are open to continuing past the initial meeting & conversations, you are then welcome to relax into receiving attentive, slow sensually nurturing massage for as long as we both have time for & is desired.
For our first meeting, before any massage, we will talk with each other and develop a sense if & how we both feel open to a session. During this time we can discuss boundaries, any questions & preferences you may have for your session.
This helps co-create a mutually clarifying, comfortable and harmonious synergy with each other.
Provided we both are open to continuing past the initial meeting & conversations, you are then welcome to relax into receiving attentive, slow sensually nurturing massage for as long as we both have time for & is desired.
Desire to receive massage sessions
at my Marin, California location? Or your location?
If you are compatible with & respect the criteria & boundaries I have mentioned below,
you are welcome to be in touch to reserve times & enjoy receiving massage sessions -
Compatible Criteria Include -
* Of your own choice, you appreciate and want to enjoy receiving
shame-free, sensually affectionate massages.
* You agree to communicate reliably openly directly honestly with me at all times.
Including about any preferences, questions & boundaries you have before expecting me to know & thereby respect such.
And to be honest about your own behaviors, and in making & showing for agreed upon session times.
*You agree to respect any boundaries I have & express. Including those mentioned in this section.
You are not receiving sensual or sexual massage, tantric massage, etc from people other than myself.
* You are healthfully physically slender fit & toned.
Massage sessions are not a replacement for, but are a compliment to being self-responsibly physically fit & healthy.
* Include in your first email to me - your full name, at least two clear & recent
full photos of just yourself taken within the last week ( face & body fully shown & not hidden behind anything or deceptive angles or cropped out, bulky clothing, filters, mask, glasses, etc., )
to help filter out spammers & scammers and for mutual clarity.
* Mention what interests you in receiving session(s),
days & times & location you want to receive sessions and any questions you have.
* When giving for a mutually compatible, healthy woman who respect my equal humanity & time, who are considerately reliable about communicating honestly, making & showing up for agreements & scheduled sessions on a regular basis,
I can be very generous in how I give and for how long.
1 - 3 hours generally.
Mutual respect, appreciation, reliability & honesty is foundational.
* To help filter out disrespectfully flaky, dishonest, untrustworthy people who request of me to reserve my time, trust and caring massage skill meeting and giving massage(s),
but then flake, cancel same day or don't even communicate & show up for appointments reliably, so my time is reserved for mutually respectfully appreciative, reliable & honest people,
I am now requiring -
1 ) If you contact me & I agree to meet & provide massage, I will only stay open to doing so when within 1 day of my email reply agreeing to meet, you reliably make definitive plans for a specific date & time & follow through.
And you continue to communicate mutually appreciatively, honestly reliably - you do not ghost or wait days to reply to texts & emails.
It is up to you to be trustworthy, appreciative & reliable in making appointment times & showing up for them on time. Actions reveal who one is as much and more than words do.
This helps co-create mutually respectful, trustworthy, harmonious synergy required for sessions.
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Some healthy motivations for wanting & receiving sensually nurturing massages -
Many women have shared with me some of the following motivations for wanting & receiving sensually nurturing massages -
* Being separated or divorced recently or for a long time, and missing feeling nurturing affectionate touch.
* Enjoying the blending of skillful massage and sensually nurturing, slow qualities of touch & synergy.
* Wanting to enjoy receiving attentively loving, nurturing inclusive massage of breasts for extended periods of time, which are unfortunately usually neglected in formal spa massages. Many women share they love having their breasts massaged, even preferring this for hours at time. Massage of breasts also helps open & nourish the heart center, facilitates healthy lymph flow and feels wonderfully nourishing.
* Preferring a more European, natural, shame-free perspective & ways of relating with the natural body & massages. Free of the shame, fear, hate & prudish compartmentalizing attitudes about the natural body & affection normalized & pushed by puritanical sociopaths who abusively believe & act as if they have any right to negatively judge, invade & control what anyone else does in their personal lives & relationships of all kinds.
* Open to experiencing new, nourishing ways of being & enjoying ones soulfully embodying nature.
* Relaxing into appreciatively openly receiving attentive, calmly affectionate touch for more than a few minutes at a time. Massage sessions last anywhere from 1 hour to a few hours or so depending on time available, physical fitness & honest appreciation of clientele & mutual synergy.
* Not having time or interest in a formal, full-time intimate relationship, but respect the value of relaxing, intimately affectionate massage - touch and the balancing aspects of this.
* Enjoying the naturally complimentary, yin - yang / female - male harmonizing relational synergy as a women receiving from a man.
* Appreciating receiving whole body nurturing affection for extended periods of time. Rather than rushing to genital intercourse & neglecting a slower, whole body nurturing focus as happens with some peoples' intimate relationships.
* And additional healthy reasons.
In respect of this I am now selectively providing sensually focused massages at my discretion. For mutually resonant, appreciative, honest, healthfully physically fit - toned women wanting to receive attentively slow, whole body nurturing massages.
While still including the skill & wellness supportive qualities based in my training & experience in deep tissue, swedish, sports, thai, pnf, lymph, reiki, pranic healing and trigger point massage methods,
these whole body sessions emphasize deep relaxation, mindful deep breathing, and attentively slow, whole body sensually nurturing.
* Being separated or divorced recently or for a long time, and missing feeling nurturing affectionate touch.
* Enjoying the blending of skillful massage and sensually nurturing, slow qualities of touch & synergy.
* Wanting to enjoy receiving attentively loving, nurturing inclusive massage of breasts for extended periods of time, which are unfortunately usually neglected in formal spa massages. Many women share they love having their breasts massaged, even preferring this for hours at time. Massage of breasts also helps open & nourish the heart center, facilitates healthy lymph flow and feels wonderfully nourishing.
* Preferring a more European, natural, shame-free perspective & ways of relating with the natural body & massages. Free of the shame, fear, hate & prudish compartmentalizing attitudes about the natural body & affection normalized & pushed by puritanical sociopaths who abusively believe & act as if they have any right to negatively judge, invade & control what anyone else does in their personal lives & relationships of all kinds.
* Open to experiencing new, nourishing ways of being & enjoying ones soulfully embodying nature.
* Relaxing into appreciatively openly receiving attentive, calmly affectionate touch for more than a few minutes at a time. Massage sessions last anywhere from 1 hour to a few hours or so depending on time available, physical fitness & honest appreciation of clientele & mutual synergy.
* Not having time or interest in a formal, full-time intimate relationship, but respect the value of relaxing, intimately affectionate massage - touch and the balancing aspects of this.
* Enjoying the naturally complimentary, yin - yang / female - male harmonizing relational synergy as a women receiving from a man.
* Appreciating receiving whole body nurturing affection for extended periods of time. Rather than rushing to genital intercourse & neglecting a slower, whole body nurturing focus as happens with some peoples' intimate relationships.
* And additional healthy reasons.
In respect of this I am now selectively providing sensually focused massages at my discretion. For mutually resonant, appreciative, honest, healthfully physically fit - toned women wanting to receive attentively slow, whole body nurturing massages.
While still including the skill & wellness supportive qualities based in my training & experience in deep tissue, swedish, sports, thai, pnf, lymph, reiki, pranic healing and trigger point massage methods,
these whole body sessions emphasize deep relaxation, mindful deep breathing, and attentively slow, whole body sensually nurturing.
A nurturing aspect of slow, attentively nurturing touch & massage and "edging", is the calmly arousing & nourishing quality this has on one's being.
Rather than quickly rushing to some end goal, opening into an hour or more of slow sensually loving affection allows space for deepening, naturally pleasurable relaxing into ones soft, sensually spiritual 💗 heart-centered being.
Allowing waves of pleasure, of appreciatively embodying presence to ebb & flow. Attuning more intimately with the natural pulse of loving existence. ☯️💜
