As a teenager I began exploring meditative embodiment processes. Including Chinese martial arts and qigong embodied meditative practices which became and remain my core daily wellness & meditative process of self care. Massage eventually became an additional way of supporting wellness & spiritual - physical harmony, as I was trained & certified in massage beginning in the mid 2000s.
One aspect of the qigong arts I discovered & integrate is the Taoist perspective of yin - yang energy harmony & affection as a natural & wellness supportive aspect of life & human relating in diverse contexts.
Neither grasping at affection to be the end all fulfillment of life. Nor shaming, shunning or dismissing it into only tiny moments & contexts of life. Rather than rushing out of the present to narrow goal focus or avoidance of affection. Instead choosing to relax deeply into process - feeling & appreciating nurturing affection in the present. Appreciatively allowing waves of natural calm pleasure to ebb & flow naturally. Enjoying both the peaks & valleys of life, so to speak.
One of the most foundational, natural needs & desires of sentient beings is shame-free caring affection, physical nurturing touch. It is also why studies of beings raised with or deprived of abundant nurturing physical affection, often reveal a difference in quality of life, growth and even survival. With beings receiving little or no consistent nurturing touch & affection often suffering from more emotional & physical stress, feelings of isolation, weakened immune system, depression and other issues. Some premature and regular term birth babies have even wasted away & died from lack of physical contact.
Receiving loving, nurturing affection frequently in shame-free, appreciative ways strengthens our immune system and feelings of positive interrelationship with life & each other, opens our heart, supports feeling more deeply pleasurably embodied, grounded and peaceful.
This includes nurturing affection inclusive of the breasts which are often neglected in mainstream spa & solely clinical massages. The breasts are intimately connected with the heart center, and massage of breasts when given & received with appreciation nourishes a calm, loving quality of presence.
There are less inhibited cultures than those influenced by aspects of puritanical attitudes. Such as various European cultures which view the natural body and affection of all kinds as completely natural. Appreciative of the natural healthy body and enjoying frequent affection of many kinds is essential to living a healthy, thriving life. As some aspects of Chinese Taoist spirituality also understand and respect, the natural healthy & harmonizing quality of yin - yang is also experienced in the synergy between honest, healthy and appreciative women and men. As women in general are more yin, and men more yang, in an energetic sense. This yin - yang quality of women and men is naturally nurturing to both when appreciated. Even in massage & proximity context without sexual relating.
Such perspectives and approach to massage is also considered natural and healthy by many European cultures and women I've met from such countries. The sessions I provide honor this natural fact of life.
By maintaining a positive regard for & prioritizing such natural, affectionate human experiences, and choosing to relate with open honesty, people generally feel less knee jerk reactive, are more content, happier & comfortably at home in the body and our interrelationships with each other. And are less prone to abusively negatively project, harass, falsely accuse and meddle in other peoples lives and freedom. Being more loving & accepting of the goodness of our spiritual - human nature and each others freedom to relate honestly and diversely.
November special - Free introductory massage for compatible, physically fit, honest women for long-term monthly massages. Must respect my boundaries, including at least 2 full, clear photos of yourself, your interests in receiving sessions and when you want to come enjoy, & reliably make & show up for session times.
Why I provide sensually nurturing massages.
One aspect of living healthfully honestly includes awakening to & freeing oneself from the comfortable blinders of unquestioning adherence to living life in ways we are conditioned to & just assume to be the only valid way. Growing beyond droning away our days marching like submissively obedient lemmings along a rigid path just because its what media, ideological, religious, political or other persons and dogmatic belief systems claim to be the one true and only valid way.
I believe that living in accordance with a few certain principles is foundational to being healthy, integral, beautiful and sane beings. Specifically the principles of - honesty, appreciation, integrity, physical fitness and relating with each other as we want to be treated in principle. Not relating in abusive negatively projecting, passive aggressively and / or directly manipulative, lying, falsely accusatory & hypocritical ways.
While for some people, either avoiding all kinds of affection or reserving it with one person for many decades may be genuinely healthy, some people prefer being single or otherwise are not in a committed relationship with someone, but still want to enjoy the healthy, nurturing aspects of sensual affection.
Relative to sensually nurturing massages, this includes a respect for the fact that not everyone has the time, desire or life situation for restricting affection to spending every day entwined with someone in a formal relationship or marriage. And may lack & want more skillful, caring, health affirming touch in ones life.
For myself I respect that, at least at some points in my life it is healthier & I prefer having more time to myself. To be free to focus on my own solitary meditative wellness practices, work, being in nature, exploring, learning, simply being and more. Simultaneously I still respect the healthfulness of sharing mutually appreciative, genuine, honest & enduring friendships ( platonic and otherwise ) with certain people in various contexts. Sharing naturally nurturing affection selectively with some people when mutually honest & appreciative is also healthy to include at times.
Since many people share this perspective, and I've experienced many women express deep appreciation and desire for continuing receiving the quality of massages I provide, this site exists to selectively provide these sessions for some women. As a way of respecting the valid, healthy & balancing desires many have for focused, slow, shame-free nurturing sensual affection through massages.
Massage sessions - times & contact.
Currently I reside in the San Francisco bay area, in Marin. Where I selectively provide sessions for mutually appreciative, resonant women who are maintaining healthy fitness - wellness, relate with me in respectful, appreciative & self-responsibly honestly communicative ways about their boundaries & preferences in order to co-create mutual understanding & respect, and enjoy receiving attentively nurturing, affectionate massages as a balancing aspect of self-care.
For our first meeting, before any massage, we will talk with each other and develop a sense if & how we both feel open to a session. During this time we can discuss boundaries, any questions & preferences you may have for your session. This helps co-create a mutually clarifying, comfortable and harmonious synergy with each other. Provided we both are open to continuing past the initial meeting & conversations, you are then welcome to relax into receiving attentive, slow sensually nurturing massage for as long as we both have time for & is desired.
If and as mutually comfortable and time allows, massages may last anywhere from 30 minutes to a few hours, based in personal mutual comfort & openness independent of any monetary exchange. And is open-ended regarding time & type of massage & touch based in mutual appreciation, openness & availability.
I provide these sessions selectively. When mutually appreciative, compatible and I am related with with mutual respect and honest, I can be generous with giving massage sessions. This does not mean I am submissive, a doormat or tolerate disrespectful, dishonest & selfish attitudes & behaviors. I have firm, self-respecting boundaries about how I am related with & who I give for. This helps keep the relational synergy harmoniously balanced, mutually caring and equal.
Generally sessions are available by appointment, 11:00am through 10pm every day.
Interested in receiving massage sessions?
If you are compatible with & respect the criteria & boundaries I have mentioned, you are welcome to be in touch to reserve times & enjoy receiving massage sessions -
* Include in your first email to me - your full name, at least two clear & recent full photos of just yourself taken within the last month ( not hidden behind deceptive angles, bulky clothing, filters, mask, glasses, etc., ) to help filter out spammers & scammers and for mutual clarity.
* Mention what interests you in receiving session(s), days & times & location you want to receive sessions and any questions you have.
* When giving for mutually compatible, healthy women who respect my equal humanity & time, who are considerately reliable about communicating honestly, making & showing up for agreements & scheduled sessions, I can be very generous in how I give and for how long. Mutual respect, appreciation & honesty is foundational.