Why I selectively provide sensual massages for women.
Why I selectively provide sensual massages for women. -
Since attending my first of multiple massage schools in mid 2000s, I have been meeting & giving massages in many contexts such as high end spas, through outcall - in-home and corporate massage companies, and via my own private offices and out-call sessions.
I've met a high percentage of healthy, fit women who, even in spas and similar environments, indirectly & directly express openness to & desire for receiving their massages with less to no draping than more puritanical ideas about the body appreciate & respect. Including & often spending much time massaging their breasts and whole body.
Not only as a support of their fitness processes, muscular tension relief, but also for the natural, sensually nurturing qualities. Appreciatively relating with & massaging their whole unified sensually embodying nature, rather than perpetuating fragmented, fearful & shaming attitudes and the subconscious disassociation & stress the latter create.
And a number of women who taught some of the massage courses in the schools I attended, also revealed having a more European, naturist sensual perspective & preference about the body & ways of giving & receiving massage.
For many years after completing my first formal massage school training and giving massages, even when I was personally also comfortable with individual women who wanted little to no draping and more inclusively nursing massages from me, I declined to give in such ways.
Part of my choice to be more reserved was my personal preference for lasting, and monogamous mutually appreciative relationships. And being rather dogmatic about what I viewed as monogamous or not.
Gradually I've grown to recognize what I value most is honesty & mutual affinity. While I still prefer lasting relationships these can also be within the context of affectionate friendships & massages when mutual.
And since I love giving massages, fitness, ongoing learning & the meditative sensually embodying nature of attentive nurturing massages, being selectively open how I give massages for healthy, honest, mutually appreciative & comfortable women affirms natural, shame-free & healthy ways of being & massages more than dogmatic, puritanical social attitudes recognize as valid.
Generally providing these massages for healthy, honest, appreciative women who also prefer & create times for receiving from me with some consistency, helps deepen harmonious rapport, relaxation, understanding of individuals preferences and giving accordingly as mutually comfortable.
Massage sessions I provide combine deep tissue, Swedish, myofascial, sports, lymph & thai methods, with an attentive, naturally nurturing quality of touch.
Be in touch to enjoy high quality, attentively nurturing, relaxing massages. At my San Rafael office & some out-calls, 11am through 10pm by appointment every day.
Consistently creating time to appreciatively relax into enjoying sensual affection nourishes healthy, natural being.
Intentionally frequently & consistently making time & space in your life to relax deeply open into receiving sensually affectionate massages is a wise, natural & harmonious choice. This provides, unfortunately commonly socially overlooked or underappreciated, naturally balancing, healing & nourishing ways of being & experiencing being human.
We thrive on a harmonizing blend of solitary self-care choices including exercising, maintaining a healthfully trim physical fitness, optimum hydration, healthy diet, an appreciative and honest way of perceiving and relating. Coupled with choosing to frequently enjoy inter-relational experiences including luxuriously relaxing into naturally erotic, sensually affectionate massages for an hour and longer as desired.
💙☯️Sensual - spiritual wellness includes taking care of our embodying being by actively maintaining a healthfully trim, fit body through consistent exercising - fitness activities. Combined with an honest, appreciative attitude and ways of relating.
My own ways of doing this are primarily through embodied meditation arts of zhan zhuang & tai chi qigong which I've been practicing since a teenager. And using resistance bands for added muscular strengthening - toning. I've also practiced yoga and taken dance classes off and on for years, thougj they are not my main practice.
Of course there are many additional ways of creating a healthfully trim - fit body, such as calisthenics, gymnastics, pilates, weight training, and many others.
Personally I love the qigong arts, as the attentively focused, slow, fluid & sensitive movement of tai chi & baguazhang qigong and the stillness of zhan zhuang standing meditation nourishes a calmly focused, deeply spiritually-sensually grounded, centered quality of sensualizing awareness & being.
Releasing excess & socially normalized stress, mental noise & tension. Supporting graceful attunement with natural life essence, with our lovingly appreciative, sensual nature.
Combining these aspects of being self-responsible for our fitness, with balancing receiving of sensually nurturing massages & affection naturally blends independent & relational ways of affirming wellness, healthy pleasure and harmony.
It's a myth that massages can either be only therapeutic - support athletic, yoga, fitness activities, help exercise recovery & reduce pain. Or naturally pleasurably affectionate, nurturing & relaxing.
I blend aspects of both to varying degrees with individuals in massage sessions I provide. Rather than being in opposition, fitness complimentary & slow, naturally nurturing ways of massage are mutually enhancing.
Appreciating the healthfully natural human body, desires for & relaxing into shame free enjoyment of free-flowing slow, kindly affectionate nurturing, while also applying massage methods for releasing specific areas of excess tension & scar tissue, supporting mobility restoration, improving balance of tone & suppleness, etc.. Some methods I am trained in & integrate in massage sessions include deep tissue, swedish, sports, myofascial, lymph, thai and reiki.
It is an unnatural, socially normalized abusive attitude & associated feelings, that we should project shameful, fearful, suspicious or simply dismissive attitudes toward our sensual body ( merging appreciation - love ❤ with our body in a fully feeling way ) , affection and enjoyment of such. And that men and women open to providing and wanting to receive such are in any way bad, predatory, creepy, sinful, etc..
It is a dualistic lie that we are either "good" by being technically effective, cold and formal ( good ) or "sinful" & "creepy bad" by being shamelessly appreciative of & enjoy feeling our whole unitive sensual body and affection of various kinds..
Such dualistic, unloving attitudes & feelings are unnatural & perpetuate unhealthy normalized mental, emotional & physical tension, stress, unnatural guilt, false accusations & hardening of the heart.
Allowing ourselves to evolve beyond such dualistic, earth & body shaming beliefs, to accept and enjoy the spirituality and healthfulness of our equally natural pleasurable sensual nature and experiencing of being & relating, opens us to expanding realities of love, appreciation, wellness, harmony ☯️ & enjoyment of being & relationships of many kinds.
Allowing us to soulfully embody more fully, lovingly, naturally and enjoyably.